So, your love relationship has broken recently and after all sorts of worry, you might have now consoled yourself and might have started to move along with your friends as you were earlier. If you are doing this now only after a long gap of loneliness this approach is wrong. You should have never showed others and your ex that you were missing him/her a lot. So, all the tough periods have gone and now you are the fresh person with no such person in your life. At this juncture, rather than showing your ex that you were trying to find out tips on how to get your ex back, you can just develop your friendship with him/her.
Both of you should try to forget about your past relationship and you should try to be yourself and can continue to be as good friends. You should show as if you are a positive person unaffected by any situations and this can create a good impression in the mind of your ex when both of you continue as friends. You can still show the care you have for your ex even if you are just friends now. Continuing with friendly approach can bring a positive impact on your relationship. As friends both of you can discuss about common things without any personal feelings.
